While I was gleefully devouring all four seasons of Supernatural for my Diary of a Supernatural Virgin column, I couldn’t help but notice all of the similarities between Dean Winchester and my favorite ass-kicking blonde slayer, Buffy Summers. There’s no denying that Eric Kripke owes much to Joss Whedon for paving the way with his ground-breaking iconic series, but I also think he instilled in his hero, Dean, many of the same qualities that make Buffy the well-rounded character that she is.
It even goes beyond qualities and encompasses actual story elements that touched both characters. I’m going out on a limb here and saying that Kripke didn’t borrow without rhyme or reason: I think he paid homage to Whedon in the ways he subtly carved Dean’s complex character to be similar to Buffy’s duality — the lighthearted banter masking the inner angst.
1. Dean and Buffy both had a death wish, then decided they’d rather live.
Dean was done with his hunting life and ready to take on whatever death was going to bring him: hopefully, peace. Buffy did die, went to heaven, really liked it there, so never embraced life like she should have once she returned. In season three of Supernatural, Dean meets a nightmare version of himself in “Dream a Little Dream of Me” and decides he doesn’t want to die after all. Buffy just screws Spike, gets trapped in a pit with Dawn at the end of season six and decides to enjoy the earthly plane again.
2. Dean and Buffy both died and came back.
Castiel and the angels yanked Dean out of Hell and brought him back to Earth to do their bidding. Buffy’s “angel” was her best friend, Willow, whose questionable magic practices and love for Buffy caused her to make a really bad decision.
3. Each is in charge of watching out for a younger sibling.
Buffy’s got an important job in keeping Dawn — and The Key — safe. Dean’s got to watch out for little girl Sam, but also he’s got to be sure Sam doesn’t cross the line to the dark side.
4. Taking a demon life comes very easily to the pair.
Buffy’s never had any qualms about dusting a vamp, and it’s (mostly) always been an unquestionable truth for Dean that demons need killing.
5. Dean and Buffy each crawled their way up out of a grave.
When Willow’s spell brings Buffy back to life, she claws her way out of her coffin, only to be traumatized by the experience. Dean finds himself alive and matter-of-factly makes his way out of the dirt and back into life. Or a convenience store.
6. They each had a tough decision to make for the greater good: killing someone they loved.
At the end of season two, Buffy kills Angel and sends him back to Hell. Even though she knows he has his soul back, she does it to save the world. Throughout the Supernatural series, Dean is prepared to follow John’s orders (and Sam’s wishes) to kill Sam if he goes all evil. Would Dean have followed through if need be is another story….
7. They each tangled with Todd Stashwick.
Huh? Todd Stashwick is the actor who played the M’Fashnik demon in Buffy‘s season six episode, “Flooded.” He also played Dracula in Supernatural‘s season four “Monster Movie.” (Thanks to Brett for this obscure detail!)
8. They both had absentee fathers.
Buffy’s dear daddy left her mother right along with his interest in being a dad. She had a Mom she depended on, and Giles as her father figure. Dean’s dad meant well, but was too caught up in the hunt to be the best dad he could be, leaving Dean to fend for himself and take care of Sam. Do you think Buffy and Dean were both stronger for it, or did it contribute to their weaknesses?
9. Dean and Buffy each play the ditzy one.
As flaky as most of the Scooby gang can be at times, Buffy tends to have a ditzy side that counterbalances her slayer-esque strength and street smarts, foiled by Willow’s book smarts. Dean, as well, possesses the street smarts but, when compared with Sam, doesn’t have a lot of book knowledge to his credit.
10. They are vain and funny at the same time.
“I may be dead, but I’m still pretty. Which is more than I can say for you.” – Buffy, “Prophecy Girl”
“You think you’re funny?” – Henricksen
“I think I’m adorable.” – Dean
11. Dean and Buffy both put on a brave front when they’re scared, and we get some funny lines because of it.
“Now, we can do this the hard way or … well, actually, there’s just the hard way.” – Buffy to Darla
“That’s fine with me.” – Darla
“Are you sure? Now this is not gonna be pretty. We’re talking violence, strong language, adult content.” – Buffy
“I’m not going to die in a hospital where the nurses aren’t even hot.” – Dean
OK, I’m out. But I think I’ve proven my point: Buffy and Dean have a lot in common, and Kripke owes it all to Joss. Did I miss anything?
They are both pretty to look at. ;)
Buffy had sex with Angel while Dean had sex with an angel. But I still think John needs his ass kicked for putting so much pressure on Dean starting at the age of four. But at least Dean has Bobby. And I agree because I think Dean’s adorable too.
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They are both the chosen one of some possibly nefarious group of ancient powerful beings which neither really understands or approves.
gotta disagree with #6 .. dean would absolutely never kill sam. that was made pretty clear when the demon posessed Sam in season 3 and pushed dean from every angle to break him and get him to kill Sam, and Dean wouldn’t do it.
Perhaps a better comparison would be combining numbers 3 and 6 into one category – both have a younger sibling who they literally die for. Dean traded his life for Sam’s, and Buffy jumped into the portal instead of Dawn. They were both charged by their dead-parent to watch out for their younger sibling (in one way or another), and both took it the umpteenth degree by sacrificing themselves..
not to post twice in a row.. but how about adding on to #8 – not only absentee actual fathers, but father figures in other men .. Giles & Bobby.
It’s a meta-similarity, but both Jensen Ackles and Sarah Michelle Geller first became (relatively) well known on daytime soaps (Ackles as Eric Brady on Days of our Lives, and Geller as Kendall on All My Children), and both were nominated for Daytime Emmys in the Outstanding Younger Actor/Actress categories.
I love you. I really do. Comparing two of my favorite things in such a mad-awesome way! I would hug you if you didn’t only exist to me as a weird internet abstract of a person behind (skillfully written) text. But here’s the textual representation of a hug, just for you! *hug*
Also, dead mothers, both of whom were awesome. Both also visited “alternate” universes in which they were “normal” (Buffy: “Normal Again,” Dean: that one where he mows the lawn to the musical stylings of the Ramones. I forgot the name of it because I suck.)
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Anne.. the Supernatural episode you’re referring to is “What Is And What Should Never Be” .. one of my favorite eps.
Oh yeah! Thanks, CandyMaize!
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Why thank you! :-)
Anne.. the Supernatural episode you’re referring to is “What Is And What Should Never Be” .. one of my favorite eps.
Love the list. Some good points have been been made by previous comments .. and I’ll give a specific shout-out to faith’s
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Wow! I LOVE our commenters here at CliqueClack! You guys had the most awesome ideas — I wish I asked you all before I wrote my list. ;-) You see what happens when a bunch of fans come together? Magic, I tell ya…. :-)
Wow, seeing Buffy and Dean side by side gave me crazy ideas for a crazy r-rated cross-over. Egos clash, insults exchanged, demons get killed, a passionate kiss, Spike jealous…
Wonderful list!
Not only have they both died, they both died twice.
And both have met characters they had a huge amount in common with and really clicked with — who nearly killed them (Faith for Buffy, the Siren for Dean).
And both had siblings who came on the scene way late in the game.
I think you`re absolutly right!
Yes,thy`ve got lots in common) Yes, Dean is like Buffy in many ways. Yes they`d understood each other.
My point is that it`s good that it is so!
I LOVE JENSEN ACKLES AND SARAH MICHELLE BOTH!)) And I love their characters.
I HOPE THAT SOMEDAY SARAH MICHELLE WILL TAKE PART IN SUPERNATURAL OR MAYBE THEY WILL STARRING IN SOME MOVIE TOGETHER!!!I REALY HOPE SOMEDAY IT WILL COME TRUE!
You forgot to mention they both have the most beautiful green eyes.
Amber Bensen was on both shows!